Yesterday, I decided to detox and get a little walking in so I headed to the mall. I made it through my whole shopping excursion, and I decided to get some "chinese food" from the food court before I left. While I was standing in line, the guy in front of me kept asking me all these questions, I didn't think anything of it. He mumbled something and I just did a smile and chuckle (which is what I do when I don't hear what someone says). AfterI paid for food, and he like jumped out from behind the mall shrubbery and was like "HEEYYY." Startled, I just did a small smile again. So after a little small talk (which I hate), he very smoothly asked for my number. I knew it was coming, and I tried to get out of it, but I figured why not...he seems kind of nice, he is dressed kind of nice, and my creep radar wasn't going off. And plus if he was some crazy psycho killer I didn't want him to get mad if I said no thanks. I mean I was at the mall by myself and all.. So I gave it to him, forgot about it and left the mall.
Probably 25 minutes after I got home, my phone rang. It was the random guy from the mall, I didn't answer cause I was surprised he would call so soon. So he called 3 more times before the end of the day. I was like dang. Oh and get this he left a voicemail one of the times saying ,"Hey what's up Vanessa...this is ____ from the mall, I just met you a COUPLE MINUTES AGO, just calling to see whats up." So he knows that he just met me soooo soon. So I woke up this morning to a text message, saying "whats up?" from the MALL GUY. I was like geesh...he needs to calm down.
So I started thinking...when and how soon is it appropriate for someone to call you once they have your number?
Honestly, I don't really give out my number, and I never expect anyone to call, but I figured a day or two is alright...but not a couple of minutes...And if they don't answer, don't keep calling, at least not the same day. Ugh the whole thing is ridiculous...all I wanted to do is detox in the mall...oh well. Until Next Time...
LOL!
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